Equals

Everyone has a different idea of why things happen... some say its destiny, some say it's God's will, others just say its chaos theory ... The way i see it... its not focusing on the why... but rather tryin to see things this way:

Your enemies = Your teachers.
Your failure = your wisdom
your mistakes = your lucky discoveries
Your conflicts = your growth opportunities
Your undesired endings = your desirable beginnings
Your grape of wrath = your raisons d'etre
Your painful feelings = your proud proof that you are dealing with your feelings head on

There's actually a freebee bonus benefit to start seein things as stated above... You begin to feel less judgmental about your: rage, fear, pain, conflicts, and most of all... disappointments..
not only for what has happened in the pst but also when it comes to your present and future.

There's no such thing as a bad thing.... just things that had to happen to help u grow.